{"id":40,"date":"2006-06-20T18:02:22","date_gmt":"2006-06-20T16:02:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sigmacore.net\/?p=40"},"modified":"2024-05-29T08:57:00","modified_gmt":"2024-05-29T08:57:00","slug":"un-sfatuitor-mai-intelept","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/simplitate.ro\/blog\/index.php\/2006\/06\/20\/un-sfatuitor-mai-intelept\/","title":{"rendered":"Un Sfatuitor Mai Intelept"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Originalul: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youmeworks.com\/awiseradviser.html\">A Wiser Adviser<\/a> de Adam Khan.<\/p>\n<h2>Un sf\u0103tuitor mai \u00een\u0163elept<\/h2>\n<p>Ai sesizat c\u00e2t de \u00een\u0163elept suni atunci c\u00e2nd dai sfaturi unei persoane mai tinere dec\u00e2t tine? Nu te auto-am\u0103ge\u015fti. Chiar ai c\u0103p\u0103tat ceva \u00een\u0163elepciune cu trecerea anilor. Nu \u0163i-ai dorit vreodat\u0103 s\u0103 fi\u0163i at\u00e2t de \u00een\u0163elept \u015fi c\u00e2nd ai probleme? Po\u0163i fi. Po\u0163i s\u0103 vorbe\u015fti cu tine \u00eensu\u0163i ca si cum ai fi un unchi de departe.<\/p>\n<p>Randall Masciana a \u00eencercat s\u0103 descopere ce tip de strategie mental\u0103 ar putea \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u0163i performan\u0163ele unei persoane la aruncatul cu s\u0103ge\u0163i. Masciana a pus participan\u0163ii s\u0103 \u00eencerce orice de la imagini mentale pana la Zen. Lucrul care a func\u0163ionat cel mai bine \u00een \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u0163irea capabilit\u0103\u0163ii de a nimeri \u0163inta a fost \u201es\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 pozitiv cu propria persoan\u0103\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Pur \u015fi simplu a vorbi cu tine \u00eensu\u0163i \u00eentr-un mod \u00eencrez\u0103tor, lini\u015ftitor, pozitiv, prietenesc conteaz\u0103 foarte mult. Poate c\u0103 e ceva r\u0103suflat. Poate c\u0103 e ceva vechi. Dar func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 \u015fi func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 mai bine dec\u00e2t orice altceva.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd situa\u0163ia devine dificil\u0103, p\u0103streaz\u0103-\u0163i g\u00e2ndurile proeminente. Cre\u015fte volumul vocii tale interne astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 o auzi clar \u015fi sf\u0103tuie\u015fte-te pe tine \u00eensu\u0163i. Dac\u0103 nu \u015ftii ce s\u0103 spui imagineaz\u0103-\u0163i c\u0103 un prieten de al t\u0103u sau fr\u0103\u0163iorul t\u0103u mai mic este \u00een aceea\u015fi situa\u0163ie \u015fi spune-\u0163i \u0163ie \u00eensu\u0163i ce le-ai spune lor.<\/p>\n<p>Un alt mod de a \u015fti ce s\u0103-\u0163i spui este s\u0103 te \u00eentrebi ce \u0163i-ar spune o persoan\u0103 pe care o admiri: un profesor, bunica ta &#8211; o persoan\u0103 pe care o admiri pentru \u00een\u0163elepciunea sa \u015fi pentru puterea sa de caracter. Imagineaz\u0103-\u0163i c\u0103 ceri sfatul acestei persoane \u015fi imagineaz\u0103-\u0163i ce \u0163i-ar r\u0103spunde.<\/p>\n<p>\u015etii mult mai multe dec\u00e2t oricine altcineva despre situa\u0163ia \u00een care te afli, a\u015fadar sfatul pe care \u0163i-l po\u0163i da singur este \u00een multe aspecte mai util dec\u00e2t sfatul oric\u0103rei alte persoane. E\u015fti \u00een\u0163elept. Dac\u0103 ai vorbi mai mult cu tine \u00eensu\u0163i \u015fi ai asculta ce spui, via\u0163a ta ar fi mai bun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><center><br \/>\n<strong>Vorbe\u015fte cu tine \u00eensu\u0163i intr-un mod<br \/>\npozitiv \u015fi lini\u015ftitor.<\/strong><br \/>\n<\/center><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Originalul: A Wiser Adviser de Adam Khan. Un sf\u0103tuitor mai \u00een\u0163elept Ai sesizat c\u00e2t de \u00een\u0163elept suni atunci c\u00e2nd dai sfaturi unei persoane mai tinere dec\u00e2t tine? Nu te auto-am\u0103ge\u015fti. Chiar ai c\u0103p\u0103tat ceva \u00een\u0163elepciune cu trecerea anilor. Nu \u0163i-ai dorit vreodat\u0103 s\u0103 fi\u0163i at\u00e2t de \u00een\u0163elept \u015fi c\u00e2nd ai probleme? Po\u0163i fi. Po\u0163i s\u0103&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/simplitate.ro\/blog\/index.php\/2006\/06\/20\/un-sfatuitor-mai-intelept\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Un Sfatuitor Mai Intelept<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,4,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-adam-khan","category-dezvoltare-personala","category-traduceri","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/simplitate.ro\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/simplitate.ro\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/simplitate.ro\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/simplitate.ro\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/simplitate.ro\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/simplitate.ro\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":286,"href":"https:\/\/simplitate.ro\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40\/revisions\/286"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/simplitate.ro\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/simplitate.ro\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/simplitate.ro\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}